Oh, and son Jeff added this as #9:
"#9 Don't tell your waitress you want whatever that is you smelled walking up to the restaurant, therby making them feel they need to go out into the 20-degree night air to identify the menu item filling the cold air with its aroma."Fashion Beans "You like to assist your server out when you're dining away from home, but are you really helping? Real waiters and waitresses are giving you their answers."
"Dear everyone please stop doing this at restaurants"